Is Our Marriage Ripe For Emotional Affairs?
Right behind Desire comes Romance. Romance is the focusing of attention from all the options we see every day, to the one or [...]
How To Use Vulnerability To Reconnect?
We all live in a world closed off to connection. If I openly connect with you, I’m making myself vulnerable to you. You [...]
Under What Conditions Do We Restrict Our Love?
Ever hear your friends say, “If my Husband ever....., I will divorce him!” There are legitimate reasons for divorce. Physical and emotional abuse [...]
Is Our Marriage Plastic Flowers Or A Rose Bush?
I was reading a friend’s post on Facebook asking, “What is the value of marriage?” She had listened to a lecture by OSHO [...]
What Is Our Marriage?
Marriage is not a destination. It’s not something that can be purchased and consumed. Much to the disbelief of just about everyone, it [...]
5 Love Languages Was Wrong, There Are Only 3
The Five Love Languages, written by Gary Chapman is an international best seller. For the first time, a marriage counselor made love tangible for couples [...]
How to Stop Marital Arguments
Marital arguments are to be expected. Learning how to work through them is key. "Lovers are regulators of Emotional Functioning". How to stop [...]
How to Make Couples Coaching Work For You
No one really knows what to expect the first time you make an appointment for a couples counseling session. Most therapists expect a 3 to [...]
Sue Johnson – Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Emotionally Focused Therapy is a therapeutic approach developed by Dr. Sue Johnson in the 1980s in response to the distress she saw in [...]
John Gottman and The Gottman Method
John Gottman is the author of The Gottman Method, a structured approach to couple's therapy, which was developed in the 1980s. This method [...]