Parent Marriage
305-986-2905Contact Matt
Contact
Parents arguing while their young daughter covers her ears

Marriage coaching for parents · Miami & by video

Stop arguing.Start feeling like a team again.

You're great parents. But somewhere between the car seats, the work stress and the broken sleep, the two of you drifted. I help couples with young kids rebuild the connection, before it turns into infidelity or divorce.

No pressure, no pitch, an honest answer about whether coaching can help.

Miami · Office in Kendall, FL · and by video

EC3 · Emotionally Connected Couples Coaching
Certified · PCC · ICF Accredited
Couples with kids · 7 to 10 years in
Miami · Kendall, FL · By video nationwide
A focused three-session process

Selected Google Reviews

The work, in their words.

A few words from people who have shared their experience.

Speaking with Matt was very relaxing and helpful. He takes the time to understand your issues, and simply steers you, by coaching, to a path of reality. He is very pleasant to talk to, and takes plenty of time to listen. Thank you Matt.

Google reviewer

View on Google
I came to Matt for help with an ongoing situation between my spouse and I. He listened, he gave some good advice on approaches on how to handle situations I was dealing with. Overall he is straight to the point and does not sugar coat. He will say it how it is which is what I appreciate. No time wasted even though I could sit and talk to him for hours!

Google reviewer

View on Google
I whole heartedly believe that the best decision you could make if your marriage is on the rocks is to book an appointment with Matthew at parentmarriage. He is very easy to talk to and explains things in a very digestible and often funny way. I felt at ease discussing issues with him and he has a vast breadth of knowledge on how to have successful relationships. It's clear that he cares and is invested in the well being of his clients. I know that it was the right move to call Matthew, I believe no one else in Miami could have been as effective and honest with us while attempting to put us back on track. Thank you Matthew.

Google reviewer

View on Google
I was on the fence regarding a personal/professional coach. I read review after review and finally decided to coach with Matt. He is guiding me in both the personal and professional areas. I am happy to have him as a sounding board who listens to me and guides me to arrive to my own conclusions. I am happy to have found Matt and am trusting him to help me reach the goals and objectives I have set out for myself. He is witty, charming, funny and sometimes irreverent (I tend to take myself too seriously). I can only say the best of him as he boosts my confidence and helps me "see" things in vastly different perspectives.

Google reviewer

View on Google
Matthew is my go to resource when my clients needs a relationship coach. He is well trained and has solid experience, knowledge, and skills in helping people move through relationship obstacles. I appreciate and trust Matthew to take good care of my clients.

Google reviewer · Professional recommendation

View on Google
Mat is an incredible coach! He has a gift that allows him to understand each person's perspective or issue and teach them how to see the real issue and to understand yourself and others better. Whether you are trying to better understand your partner or help you overcome any of your own shortcomings he can teach you the right techniques to overcome many of lifes situations. His advice to me and my wife has been invaluable in all aspects of our lives both personally and professionally. I definitely look forward to tapping into his wisdom in the future when the need arrives. He is a wise life coach.

Google reviewer

View on Google
Matthew is super knowledgable on the subject he coaches. He knows how to explain what he is teaching in a way anyone can relate. He is open and honest to all his clients and helps you see the light to the bigger picture of what we need to cherish in our own relationship, the purpose of putting in the right ingredience to have a successful life of love.

Google reviewer

View on Google
great experience I could open up without feeling uncomfortable. Still going to see him

Google reviewer

View on Google

Reviews 1 to 3 of 8

Your experience matters.

Watch first

Marriage counseling in Miami, or coaching?

Three minutes with Matt on what to expect, what makes EC3 different, and who this is for.

The EC3 Method

Emotionally Connected Couples Coaching.

Emotionally Connected Couples and Marriage Coaching, a focused three-session process. EC3 is the framework I built for parents who've grown apart. Three sessions, three C's, direct and structured, built for people who don't have time to waste. Here's how it works.

  1. 1

    Connect

    We rebuild the emotional connection that raising kids buried. You'll learn to hear each other again, not as co-parents managing a household, but as partners.

  2. 2

    Correct

    We work through the resentments, the distance, and the moments that hurt, so they stop running the relationship from underneath.

  3. 3

    Create

    We put new patterns in place, real intimacy, real communication, and a way of being together that holds up under the weight of parenting and everything else.

You became parents together. EC3 helps you stay a couple through it.

What We Work On

The places parents get stuck.

These are the patterns I coach couples through most. If any of them sound like your relationship right now, you're in the right place.

  • Emotional Disconnection

    When you've become great co-parents but stopped being partners, and the closeness has quietly faded.

  • Lost Intimacy

    Rebuilding physical and emotional closeness that got crowded out by kids, work, and exhaustion.

  • Recurring Resentments

    The same fights and old hurts that keep resurfacing because they were never truly resolved.

  • Rebalancing Commitments

    When work, kids, and everything else have pushed the marriage to the bottom of the list.

  • After Infidelity

    Coaching couples who want to rebuild trust and decide, together, how to move forward.

  • Discernment

    For couples unsure whether to recommit or part, structured guidance to reach clarity before deciding.

  • Life Transitions

    New baby, a move, a career change, the empty nest, the crossings that shake a relationship.

  • Stress & Burnout

    When two depleted people have nothing left to give each other at the end of the day.

Matthew Hoelscher, relationship coach for parents.

About

I'm Matt.

I coach couples who are great parents and want to be great partners again. Certified professional coach (PCC · ICF) and creator of the EC3 Method, a direct, structured path back to connection through a focused three-session process.

More about Matt

Who I Work With

Built for the people who hold everything together.

I coach couples and individuals from every kind of family and every walk of life. The couples I work with best are parents who haven't given up, they just need a way back.

  • Couples
  • Parents
  • Families
  • First Responders
  • Veterans
  • LGBTQ+ Couples
  • Empty Nesters
  • Teens & Their Parents
  • Individuals
Whoever you are, if you're a parent fighting for your marriage, I'm in your corner.

Start a conversation

A first step. Honest answer.

Tell me what's going on and I'll tell you honestly whether I can help. No pressure, no sales pitch.

Contact MattPrefer to book a call?

Or call 305.986.2905