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Parents arguing while their young daughter covers her ears

Marriage coaching for parents · Miami & by video

Stop arguing.Start feeling like a team again.

You're great parents. But somewhere between the car seats, the work stress and the broken sleep, the two of you drifted. I help couples with young kids rebuild the connection, before it turns into infidelity or divorce.

No pressure, no pitch, an honest answer about whether coaching can help.

Miami · Office in Kendall, FL · and by video

EC3 · Emotionally Connected Couples Coaching
Certified · PCC · ICF Accredited
Couples with kids · 7 to 10 years in
Miami · Kendall, FL · By video nationwide
A focused three-session process

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How marriage coaching actually works.

Three minutes with Matt on what to expect, what makes EC3 different, and who this is for.

The EC3 Method

Emotionally Connected Couples Coaching.

Emotionally Connected Couples and Marriage Coaching, a focused three-session process. EC3 is the framework I built for parents who've grown apart. Three sessions, three C's, direct and structured, built for people who don't have time to waste. Here's how it works.

  1. 1

    Connect

    We rebuild the emotional connection that raising kids buried. You'll learn to hear each other again, not as co-parents managing a household, but as partners.

  2. 2

    Correct

    We work through the resentments, the distance, and the moments that hurt, so they stop running the relationship from underneath.

  3. 3

    Create

    We put new patterns in place, real intimacy, real communication, and a way of being together that holds up under the weight of parenting and everything else.

You became parents together. EC3 helps you stay a couple through it.

What We Work On

The places parents get stuck.

These are the patterns I coach couples through most. If any of them sound like your relationship right now, you're in the right place.

  • Emotional Disconnection

    When you've become great co-parents but stopped being partners, and the closeness has quietly faded.

  • Lost Intimacy

    Rebuilding physical and emotional closeness that got crowded out by kids, work, and exhaustion.

  • Recurring Resentments

    The same fights and old hurts that keep resurfacing because they were never truly resolved.

  • Rebalancing Commitments

    When work, kids, and everything else have pushed the marriage to the bottom of the list.

  • After Infidelity

    Coaching couples who want to rebuild trust and decide, together, how to move forward.

  • Discernment

    For couples unsure whether to recommit or part, structured guidance to reach clarity before deciding.

  • Life Transitions

    New baby, a move, a career change, the empty nest, the crossings that shake a relationship.

  • Stress & Burnout

    When two depleted people have nothing left to give each other at the end of the day.

Matthew Hoelscher, relationship coach for parents.

About

I'm Matt.

I coach couples who are great parents and want to be great partners again. Certified professional coach (PCC · ICF) and creator of the EC3 Method, a direct, structured path back to connection through a focused three-session process.

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Reviews

The work, in their words.

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Carlos G.
Married 13 years · 3 kids
Marriage counseling with Matthew was the best investment in our happiness we could have ever made. I have been married for 13 years and have three children from 6-13. Matthew helped my wife and I find what we needed to feel happy and emotionally connected again. Once we were a team, parenting and talking about our problems became much easier. I still can't believe how quickly we felt the change in our marriage after just a few sessions. The best marriage counselor in Miami!
  • After my fiancé's dad passed away, we went through a really rough time. We became disconnected and were having constant arguments, so I decided to contact Matthew for relationship counseling. It was the best decision we've ever made. He made us realized where we were failing and taught us how to communicate effectively without being defensive or hurting the other. I would highly recommend relationship counseling with Matthew. Worth every penny.
    Yaisy R.
    Engaged couple
  • Matthew was honestly great; the best marriage counselor I could have hoped for. He made us both feel really comfortable being able to speak our minds and thoughts. He was able to dive into the deeper meaning of what our emotions meant and where our issues stemmed from. We both felt that he was able to shed light on our issues by communicating effectively about how we can go about fixing or improving ourselves, both individually and together. I would definitely recommend him as a marriage counselor to others.
    Michelle C.
    Couple, mid-thirties
  • I have worked with Matt for over a year now, and I can speak to his passion about relationship and marriage counseling. I recommend to my clients who need couples counseling in Miami as I'm confident that he is the best coach for the package he offers. He offers clients a trusting and warm environment with very flexible hours. More importantly, he has developed the ability to cut to the chase and dive into the issues that stand in the way of a successful marriage.
    Loubna N.
    Colleague · Referring pro

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Who I Work With

Built for the people who hold everything together.

I coach couples and individuals from every kind of family and every walk of life. The couples I work with best are parents who haven't given up, they just need a way back.

  • Couples
  • Parents
  • Families
  • First Responders
  • Veterans
  • LGBTQ+ Couples
  • Empty Nesters
  • Teens & Their Parents
  • Individuals
Whoever you are, if you're a parent fighting for your marriage, I'm in your corner.

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