Marriage Straight Talk

The Parent Marriage

Start here if you are two good parents who used to be a couple and cannot quite remember when that changed. These pages lay out the parent marriage idea, what it asks of you, and why taking the pressure off romance is what gives it room to come back.

• What Marriage Coaching Costs in Miami

  The real cost of marriage coaching in Miami, what the money buys, and how to decide if it is worth it before you spend a cent.

• What Is a Parent Marriage?

  Two good parents, one impossible promise, and the agreement that actually fits the life you are living.

• Marriage Coaching vs the Clinical Path: What Actually Fits Your Marriage

  Two different tools built for two different jobs, and picking the wrong one can cost you months you do not have.

• How to Make Couples Coaching Actually Work

  The couples who get unstuck are the ones who show up and do a handful of specific, unglamorous things.

• Who I Actually Work With

  The three kinds of couples I coach, the fourth kind I turn away, and how to tell which one you are.

• What Is Our Marriage?

  Why the question shows up, the five life events that strain a marriage, and the difference between plastic flowers and a rose bush.

• What Is It Like Being Married to Me? I Asked My Wife

  I asked my wife to write about what it is actually like to be married to me, and then I told the truth about the parts she was too kind to name.

• Couple Coaching in Miami

  The service page: how a session runs, what I ask of you between them, how long couples stay, the office in Kendall, video everywhere, and the 3 session package.

• Marriage Anxiety and What Helps

  Dread about your marriage is coachable. A diagnosed condition is not. The line, said plainly, and what we actually do on the coachable side.

• Relationship Advice for Miami Couples

  Four pressures specific to marriages in this city, and the moves that work against them. The office and rates live on a different page.

• Relationship Coaching in Miami

  The local page: the Kendall office, video across Florida and all 50 states, what the free first call covers, and what sessions cost.

• Shared Power in a Marriage

  What equality in a marriage actually means, an honest audit of who decides what, and why an unspoken arrangement is the dangerous kind.

• My Marriage Coaching Office in Miami

  Inside the Kendall room, the Irma rebuild that produced it, and an honest way to decide between the office and video.

• Stop Letting Others Define Your Marriage

  Where your idea of marriage came from, why the borrowed version stops working around year seven, and how to write a definition the two of you actually chose.

• How to Choose a Marriage Coach in Miami

  How to actually choose in this city: the specialist test, the questions to ask on a first call, the red flags, and what the money looks like.

• What Marriage Coaching Costs in Miami

  Real rates, what the money is actually buying, the cheaper things worth trying first, and when I would tell you to keep your money.

• 6 Ways to Find the Right Person for Couples Work

  The specialist test, coach or clinician, session counts, location, what paying by insurance puts on your record, and how to read reviews.

• The 7 Conversations Most Marriages Are Missing

  The seven conversations behind the seven most common marriage problems, what each one is really for, and where to start if betrayal is in the picture.